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It sucks for me, at 41, because most guys my own age whom I try to date are hung up on much younger or older..don't stay in their age range. Straight men and gay men want younger partners, obsess about younger partners, and pay through the sphincter for younger partners. Gay women can try to date at all ages without being jeered at. Iâm now in my mid-50s, and I had a partner for almost 20 years until he died a few years ago.
I've always been one to seek out men for relationships who have been on earth about as long as I have, because that's where the most comfort and commonality can occur with a stranger. I don't know if it's because I didn't have a relationship in my 20s or because the younger guys have the look that attracts me -- not many guys in their 40s can pull off the hipster look and not appear ridiculous. I then realized that dating as a 50-year-old was going to be a lot more difficult than when I was 30 for a variety of reasons, including (a) there just arenât as many guys in my age group; and (b) a lot of them are already partnered. OP, I'm 49, I have no particular interest in guys in their 20s or even their 30s for the most part, but I'm on Scruff and I'm constantly getting messages, woofs, etc., from guys in their 20s - much more than any other age bracket. If you plan to visit the daddy sites that are recommended here, you'd better beef up your bank account.
So what you are saying you only have ten years left to live beacuse you are so shallow that you think if you look 45 - Its not worth living?
You better get a handle on your old age now or you are in for a shock. [quote]I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle Oh, dear - another eldergay trying to convince themselves they look 10 years younger than they are. " comments when I mention that I'm 44 to know that it's true.
Not even so much as a glance from a 1000 people in a room. It's so boring when people generalise about everyone else.
Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex.
Otherwise, date someone your own age (I know, God forbid).[quote]I am most definitely not looking to be a sugar daddy or any kind of daddy for that matter.[quote]...preferably one that isn't promoting a fetish, like silver daddy or bears, etc.?
I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle, and I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older.
When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care.